Ăn của chồng thì ngon, ăn của con thì nhục

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Meaning · English

It's shameful to rely on one's child for financial support

Literally: Eating husband's food is delicious, eating child's food is shameful

Examples

Tôi không muốn ăn của chồng thì ngon, ăn của con thì nhục, nên tôi tìm việc làmI don't want to be in a situation where eating husband's food is delicious, eating child's food is shameful, so I'm looking for a job

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Headword listed in the vdict.com proverb dictionary index (discovery source; headword only — no source content copied). Entered as candidate 2026-08-05; definition pending editorial review. Definition drafted by AI (@cf/meta/llama-3.3-70b-instruct-fp8-fast) and auto-approved by rule on 2026-08-08; pending editor spot-check.

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What does “Ăn của chồng thì ngon, ăn của con thì nhục” mean?

It's shameful to rely on one's child for financial support Literally: Eating husband's food is delicious, eating child's food is shameful

Is “Ăn của chồng thì ngon, ăn của con thì nhục” formal or informal?

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