against the grain

In real, traceable use. Part of the curated seed collection; community review is coming.

Sense 1

Meaning · English

Contrary to the natural inclination or feeling of someone.

Nghĩa · Tiếng Việt

trái với khuynh hướng hoặc cảm giác tự nhiên của ai đó

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Where it’s used: Used Widespread English

Examples

Nature conservation runs against the grain of current political doctrine.
So, as much as it went against the grain, she knew she had no alternative but to fit in with Ross's plans.

British National Corpus sentence via the MAGPIE corpus (CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-30)

Sources & notes

Listed in Wiktionary’s “English idioms” category (retrieved 2026-07-29); definition pending editorial review. Figurative class: Metaphor (PIE-English corpus, CC BY 4.0, retrieved 2026-07-31).

Sense 2

Meaning · English

Unwilling. It went much against the grain with him, i.e. it was much against his inclination, or against his pluck.

Era: ca. 1811 (Georgian)

Where it’s used: Origin British & Irish English
Sources & notes

Historical definition reproduced from Grose’s Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue (1811 edition, public domain; Project Gutenberg #5402, retrieved 2026-07-31). Reflects the attitudes of its era.

Sense 3

Meaning · English

in opposition to the wish. "It went AGAINST THE GRAIN to do it, but I knew I must," is a common expression.

Era: ca. 1874 (Victorian)

Where it’s used: Origin British & Irish English
Sources & notes

Historical definition reproduced from Hotten’s The Slang Dictionary (1874, public domain; Project Gutenberg #42108, retrieved 2026-07-31). Reflects the attitudes of its era.

Common questions

What does “against the grain” mean?

Contrary to the natural inclination or feeling of someone.

Is “against the grain” formal or informal?

No register label has been reviewed yet — treat it as neutral and check the usage notes above.